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How to Work with People Who Irritate You

February 28, 2011 by Steve

Working with people who irritate you on a regular basis can drain your energy and dampen your spirits. I came across a situation like this last week. In this video I share how I dealt with this person in a supportive way that was a win-win and what you can do with people who irritate you.



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  1. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  2. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  3. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  4. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  5. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  6. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

  7. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  8. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  9. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  10. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  11. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  12. gabsylvNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

  13. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

  14. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

  15. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

  16. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings 

  17. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  18. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  19. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  20. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  21. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  22. snake1921No Gravatar on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

  23. kakosuranosxNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

  24. kakosuranosxNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

  25. kakosuranosxNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

  26. kakosuranosxNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

  27. kakosuranosxNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

  28. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

  29. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

  30. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

  31. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

  32. subconsciousmindpowerNo Gravatar on March 6, 2011 6:42 pm

    I really like it when people can see outside the box and realize we have so much more control than we thought.

  33. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  34. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  35. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  36. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  37. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  38. MariaJose89No Gravatar on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

  39. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

  40. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

  41. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

  42. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

  43. stephenmartileNo Gravatar on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria - I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

  44. ImagineMediaNo Gravatar on December 31, 2011 12:36 am

    [..YouTube..] Ur hard to relate to. ur bad a public speakin, and the longer I listen to you the more I think your on something. Its not life. Its meds and I feel like i’ve had more intelligent conversations with a 10 year old. Sorry I just don’t like you. However you’d probably interpret that as me having low self esteem. Too bad urs is so low ur only concerned with others

  45. mizzy118118No Gravatar on January 3, 2012 1:31 pm

    [..YouTube..] awishywell

  46. ashtonriggers1111No Gravatar on February 3, 2012 4:47 pm

    [..YouTube..] ego lols

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