How to Work with People Who Irritate You

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1. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

2. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

3. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

4. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

5. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

6. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

7. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   with needless internal anger and stress, which took a toll on my nerves and physical wellbeing. Perhaps I could have overcome it with a mantra similar to yours. It now seemes such a waste of energy. Thanks for your inspirational vids!

8. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

9. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

   [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

10. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

11. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

12. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

13. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    [..YouTube..] Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

14. gabsylv on February 27, 2011 3:19 pm

    Very good, Stephen. I was publicly accused/challenged by someone (from my perception) who misunderstood my intentions, and had no way to defend myself without spoiling my own best interests. I tried to erase the anger through positive thinking but it would always come back. It gnawed at me for several months. As it turned out, she later realized she had misunderstood me and extended a hand of conciliation, which it took me over a week to accept. Now things are fine, but I spent months (cont.)

15. stephenmartile on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

16. stephenmartile on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

17. stephenmartile on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings

18. stephenmartile on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    [..YouTube..] @gabsylv… blessings 

19. Steve Martile on February 27, 2011 3:25 pm

    @gabsylv… blessings

20. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

21. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

22. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

23. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

24. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

25. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    [..YouTube..] I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

26. snake1921 on February 28, 2011 2:41 am

    I can see how this would be true… I was trying to get a job on the local base here, and a schooling program…. I got very irritated in myself, kept saying I wasnt going to make it…and it was stressful…work that day and for a couple days was very stressful..But I know where it came from….Thanks for posting..

27. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

28. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

29. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

30. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

31. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    [..YouTube..] Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

32. kakosuranosx on February 28, 2011 1:13 pm

    Hey Stephen!
    Great video and info.
    Keep it up!
    Kostas.

33. stephenmartile on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

34. stephenmartile on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

35. stephenmartile on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

36. stephenmartile on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

37. Steve Martile on February 28, 2011 5:55 pm

    @snake1921: sweet… thanks for the comments!

38. subconsciousmindpower on March 6, 2011 6:42 pm

    I really like it when people can see outside the box and realize we have so much more control than we thought.

39. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

40. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

41. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

42. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

43. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

44. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    [..YouTube..] It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

45. MariaJose89 on April 6, 2011 12:32 am

    It’s good to meet people who are aware of this reality such as this one. I wish more people in the world understood that nothing is personal and that everything is from within. The way we perceive things will dictate our actions. We must take responsibilities for ourselves :)
    Have you read any of Eckhart Tolle’s books?
    Take care!

46. stephenmartile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

47. stephenmartile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

48. stephenmartile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

49. stephenmartile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

50. stephenmartile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    [..YouTube..] @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria - I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

51. Steve Martile on April 18, 2011 7:55 pm

    @MariaJose89:

    Hey Maria – I don’t think I’ve ever read a whole book of Eckhart Tolle, but I have read a few chapters and watched quite a few of his videos online – very cool… :)

52. ImagineMedia on December 31, 2011 12:36 am

    [..YouTube..] Ur hard to relate to. ur bad a public speakin, and the longer I listen to you the more I think your on something. Its not life. Its meds and I feel like i’ve had more intelligent conversations with a 10 year old. Sorry I just don’t like you. However you’d probably interpret that as me having low self esteem. Too bad urs is so low ur only concerned with others

53. ImagineMedia on December 31, 2011 12:36 am

    Ur hard to relate to. ur bad a public speakin, and the longer I listen to you the more I think your on something. Its not life. Its meds and I feel like i’ve had more intelligent conversations with a 10 year old. Sorry I just don’t like you. However you’d probably interpret that as me having low self esteem. Too bad urs is so low ur only concerned with others

54. mizzy118118 on January 3, 2012 1:31 pm

    [..YouTube..] awishywell

55. mizzy118118 on January 3, 2012 1:31 pm

    awishywell

56. ashtonriggers1111 on February 3, 2012 4:47 pm

    [..YouTube..] ego lols

57. ashtonriggers1111 on February 3, 2012 4:47 pm

    ego lols

58. Lawrence Blake on December 21, 2012 12:26 am

    You’re cute!

59. Marie on May 2, 2013 8:14 am

    Hi!

    Also, to alternate between “I Wish You Well” and “I Wish Myself Well” can be helpful – since (as you also mentioned) the irritation most likely originates from within you and your life situation.

    Thank You Steve, I appreciate your sharing your knowledge!

    Marie