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Feb

16

How to Gain Lost Confidence and Take a Fearless Step

February 16, 2010 | 5 Comments


“Right now, in this moment, you are capable of exponential improvement in your performance.  You don’t have to settle for things as they are now.  That can change.  Dramatically.  You haven’t been reaching your full potential.  So far, you haven’t even come close.” ~ Price Pritchett

Now for most of us we’ve been taught that the best way to grow and become more is by trying harder.  You’ve got to push on through your feelings and do it.   Trying harder is how you accomplish more.  I’m sure you’ve heard that before.

The problem with always pushing yourself is that it leads to physical symptoms like burnout, fatigue and exhaustion.   The harder you try, the worse you feel and in some cases, the less you accomplish.

Not only does this approach create burnout, but it can also creates negative emotional states and feelings like frustration, worry and fear.

Fear is the strongest of all negative emotions.  It’s a dream killer and it’s the reason that many people have trouble moving forward with what’s important to them.

As an example let’s say you’re looking at a new career.  You would really like to start writing and being more creative because you want to use more of your natural talents and unique abilities.

On the outside it seems like a good idea, but on the inside you have these doubts and fears.  You think to yourself,

“What if I’m not good enough?”
“What if I’m not smart enough.”
“What if I’m not qualified?”
“What if they don’t like me?”
“What if I’m too old?”
“What if I’m too young?”

What if, what if, what if?  All these doubts running through your mind.  So on the outside you really want to take steps to make this new career happen, but on the inside you feel like you’re going through hell trying to get there.  You feel stuck.

On one side of the coin you have this desire to grow and express more of who you really are and on the other side your fear is keeping you stuck.  Your mind is trying to balance your fears and desires - where one part of you really wants this new career and the other part is resisting.

So how do you get around it?

I’m glad you asked.  What we want to do is understand what exactly is controlling your internal thermostat; this balance between your fears and desires.  Because once you know how to engage your desires and eliminate your fear, anything is possible.

Your Internal Thermostat Click here to read more…

Jan

26

Feeling Overwhelmed? Try This!

January 26, 2010 | 5 Comments


I’ve had my fair share of ups and downs. Sometimes it’s better to just lay low and take a break from it all so that you can see the stars through the clouds. It’s easy to get so caught up in the “doing” and working harder mentality to the point where you’re feeling overwhelmed.

In today’s video, I’ll share a trick that has helped me eliminate that nasty feeling of being overwhelmed.

Steve

P.S. If you’ve been feeling feeling overwhelmed lately, you’re not alone. Where is an area in your life where you keep really active and busy to compensate for ’sloppy thinking’? Click here to read more…

Nov

23

How to Detach Yourself From Your Desired Outcome

November 23, 2009 | 7 Comments


Sometimes one of the hardest things to do when aspiring to achieve new goals is to just let them go.  I know there have been times when I tried everything I could do to make something happen, except for the easiest thing - to just let it go.  And sometimes the easiest things are the most effective.

In this video I’ll share what it means to be attached and how to detach yourself from your desired outcome.

How to Detach Yourself From Your Desired Outcome

If you enjoyed this video, then you’ll also enjoy: Why Is It Taking So Long To Reach Your Goals? Click here to read more…

Sep

26

How to Use the Law of Attraction Correctly and Avoid Mistake #3

September 26, 2009 | 1 Comment


This common mistake is much more subtle that the others I’ve shared with you. If you want to learn how to use the Law of Attraction correctly, then you’ve got to be crystal clear with what you want. Sounds straightforward right?

Then why is it that a great majority of people don’t get what they want? You’ll want to watch this video to find out.

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Sep

23

Second Mistake with the Universal Law of Attraction

September 23, 2009 | 1 Comment


I wish that life could be different in that we could all easily attract what we wanted when we wanted.  Wouldn’t that be nice?  It would be if we didn’t make this one mistake with the Universal Law of Attraction: notice the difference between what you think you want and what you really want.  I explain the difference in this short video.

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Watch the rest of this video series here: How to Use the Law of Attraction and Avoid Mistake #3
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Sep

21

3 Common Mistakes with the Law of Attraction

September 21, 2009 | 4 Comments


If we lived in a perfect world, then everyone would be easily and effortlessly attracting into their life everything they ever wanted.  It would be simple.  Unfortunately, it’s not that simple because of these 3 common mistakes with the Law of Attraction.

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Aug

10

6 Signs You’re Not Using the Law of Attraction

August 10, 2009 | 6 Comments


You’re always using the Law of Attraction, but not necessarily the way you want to - the way you would like.  And that’s what I mean by not using the law of attraction.  Instead of using the Law of Attraction, you’re using it’s polar opposite - the law of repulsion: you push away the good you desire.

Here are 6 Signs You’re Not Using the Law of Attraction:

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Aug

4

Overcoming Resistance to Change, Eliminating Negative Emotions, Creating Focus and the Law of Attraction

August 4, 2009 | 4 Comments


Last week I posted a question: What is Your Most Burning Question? The feedback I received was phenomenal and these are by far the most interesting and challenging questions I have received.  Make sure to have a look if you are at all interested in the topics of overcoming resistance to change, eliminating negative emotions, creating focus and the Law of Attraction.

Here are the questions and my answers:

Question #1:

“I’ve been slowly working towards changing my life for the better and lately I’ve been making good progress but I feel there’s some deeply-held belief that is holding me back.

What do you do when you sense a “resistance” to your manifesting but can’t seem to pinpoint exactly what it is?”  ~ Dave Witwicki

Overcoming Resistance to Change

Dave, this is a great question.  You want to start looking at the source of this internal resistance, which can show up as body pain.  For me, it’s shown up in many different ways.  It’s shown up as a headache, sore back and sometimes just a general feeling of being extremely fatigued.  Any sort of body pain is a red flag that you have internal resistance.

This becomes more obvious the more you study the relationship between the mind and body.  One resource that is worth purchasing to become more aware of this relationship is Lise Bourbeau’s book: Love Yourself.  This book is an encyclopedia for metaphysical causes of disease.

I’ve mentioned Lise’s book before because I find her insights valuable.  Here’s a specific example you can read about where I resolved my own migraine pain by becoming aware of this mind body relationship: Can Your Mind Cause Body Symptoms?

With my clients, I follow a slightly different process.  I usually start by asking these questions:

  • Do you feel any pain in your body?
  • If so, where does this pain occur? (i.e. head, chest, abdomen, foot, etc.)
  • Describe the pain and how it feels to you. (i.e. sharp, continuous, throbbing, aching, etc.)

Once I get to this point, I will walk through a series of new questions (that don’t necessarily follow a specific pattern).  These questions help my clients elicit their deeper concerns.

In some cases their concerns are eliminated by purely expressing them; other times something more is required like taking a specific action.  Once these concerns have been addressed, the pain usually goes away.  When the pain is gone, the resistance disappears.

To be truthful, I’ve never been in a situation where this hasn’t been effective.  It’s amazing how accurate you can pinpoint problems and internal resistance by working with how your body feels.

Question #2:

“I’m at a different stage in my life than many of your readers/listeners. My husband and I are retired and getting more involved in volunteer activities.

My problem: many volunteer opportunities seem to involve a lot of “wheel-spinning”. Areas that need volunteers (education, for instance) are often ones which aren’t working well. But volunteers are expected to just help shore up the existing system. What seems to be needed is systemic change.

How do I, and others, become change agents in a way that makes sense and doesn’t threaten those operating within the systems so much that we are shut out?” ~ Margaret Smith Click here to read more…

Jun

29

How To Set The Right Goals

June 29, 2009 | 7 Comments


“One reason why people don’t achieve their goals is because they don’t know what part of them choose the goal.”  ~ John Kehoe

I think goal setting is one of the more important elements of personal growth.  Without goals there is no direction, no life and ultimately no growth.  Setting goals facilitates your evolution.

If you’re going to set goals, you want to make sure they are the “right” goals.  When I say the “right” goals I don’t mean that I’m right and you’re wrong.  There is no right and wrong, there is only what works and what doesn’t work.  You want to set goals that work.

How To Set The Right Goals

There are a lot of tools out there to help you set the right goals.  Just keep in mind that these are just tools and nothing more.  You could have all the right tools for goal setting but they would be useless if you didn’t set the right goals to begin with.

Setting the right goals means getting back to the basics; the principles that help you understand why goals manifest in the first place.  There are two principles that I follow for setting the right goals:

  • They have magnitude (or feeling power)
  • They have direction (meaning they are specific and measurable)

You want to think of velocity when setting the right goal.  If you think back to your math class, velocity is a vector; and a vector has two parts: it has magnitude and direction.  The right goals follow both of these principles.

How To Set The Right Goals - Two Principles

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 1

How to Set the Right Goals - Magnitude

The right goals have velocity.  They have magnitude and direction.

The magnitude of your goal is the feeling behind it.  It gives your goal power.  It puts you in gear.  It drives you to take action.

Taken from the velocity analogy, it’s the speed of your goal.  The greater the magnitude, the faster you go.

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 2

Feeling is absolutely necessary when setting the right goal.  It’s your feeling that brings you into resonance with what you want.  And when you resonate with what you want, it attracts the events, people and conditions into your life through the Law of Attraction.

If you want your goals to manifest, feel them.  That means choosing a goal that feels right to you.  It means choosing what you really want.  It sounds simple enough doesn’t it?

It is, but most people still seem to miss the boat.

They don’t set the right goals.  The don’t set goals that feel right to them.  They don’t go after what they really want, they go after what they think they can get.  And since an intellectual goal doesn’t associate feeling power, it almost useless.

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 3

3 Reasons Why You Don’t Go After What You Really Want

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May

14

Creative Visualization Insight #2

May 14, 2009 | 6 Comments


“Visualize this thing that you want, see it, feel it, believe in it. Make your mental blue print, and begin to build.”

~ Robert Collier

This is the second of three insights on creative visualization. You can go back and read the first post here:  Creative Visualization Insight #1.

Creative Visualization Insight #2: Associate Feelings

Visualization is one thing, but without strong feelings you won’t have the power to impress your image.  It’s like driving your car without any fuel.  You can have a clear direction (thought) for your car, but without any fuel (feeling) you won’t go very far.  Thought and feeling work together to bring power to the creative process.

Thought + Feeling = Creative Visualization

Feeling and Emotion

Feelings are different than emotions.  An emotion is a scattered feeling that moves in many different directions.  It’s a feeling that comes in waves of highs and lows.

You’ve probably had feelings of being pumped one day and then depressed or frustrated on another.  These are your emotions at work.  Take them as the come and express them - they’re a part of you.  Just don’t plan on using them to build your creative visualizations.

A feeling on the other hand is an emotion that is focused and directed by intentional thought.  Focus on creating feelings.  Feelings indicate your vibration.  It’s your vibration that attracts the like thoughts, circumstances, conditions and people into your life.

How do you associate feelings with your creative visualization?

Increase the Intensity of Your Creative Visualization

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