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Sep

21

3 Common Mistakes with the Law of Attraction

September 21, 2009 | 5 Comments


If we lived in a perfect world, then everyone would be easily and effortlessly attracting into their life everything they ever wanted.  It would be simple.  Unfortunately, it’s not that simple because of these 3 common mistakes with the Law of Attraction.

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Aug

10

6 Signs You’re Not Using the Law of Attraction

August 10, 2009 | 6 Comments


You’re always using the Law of Attraction, but not necessarily the way you want to - the way you would like.  And that’s what I mean by not using the law of attraction.  Instead of using the Law of Attraction, you’re using it’s polar opposite - the law of repulsion: you push away the good you desire.

Here are 6 Signs You’re Not Using the Law of Attraction:

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Aug

4

Overcoming Resistance to Change, Eliminating Negative Emotions, Creating Focus and the Law of Attraction

August 4, 2009 | 4 Comments


Last week I posted a question: What is Your Most Burning Question? The feedback I received was phenomenal and these are by far the most interesting and challenging questions I have received.  Make sure to have a look if you are at all interested in the topics of overcoming resistance to change, eliminating negative emotions, creating focus and the Law of Attraction.

Here are the questions and my answers:

Question #1:

“I’ve been slowly working towards changing my life for the better and lately I’ve been making good progress but I feel there’s some deeply-held belief that is holding me back.

What do you do when you sense a “resistance” to your manifesting but can’t seem to pinpoint exactly what it is?”  ~ Dave Witwicki

Overcoming Resistance to Change

Dave, this is a great question.  You want to start looking at the source of this internal resistance, which can show up as body pain.  For me, it’s shown up in many different ways.  It’s shown up as a headache, sore back and sometimes just a general feeling of being extremely fatigued.  Any sort of body pain is a red flag that you have internal resistance.

This becomes more obvious the more you study the relationship between the mind and body.  One resource that is worth purchasing to become more aware of this relationship is Lise Bourbeau’s book: Love Yourself.  This book is an encyclopedia for metaphysical causes of disease.

I’ve mentioned Lise’s book before because I find her insights valuable.  Here’s a specific example you can read about where I resolved my own migraine pain by becoming aware of this mind body relationship: Can Your Mind Cause Body Symptoms?

With my clients, I follow a slightly different process.  I usually start by asking these questions:

  • Do you feel any pain in your body?
  • If so, where does this pain occur? (i.e. head, chest, abdomen, foot, etc.)
  • Describe the pain and how it feels to you. (i.e. sharp, continuous, throbbing, aching, etc.)

Once I get to this point, I will walk through a series of new questions (that don’t necessarily follow a specific pattern).  These questions help my clients elicit their deeper concerns.

In some cases their concerns are eliminated by purely expressing them; other times something more is required like taking a specific action.  Once these concerns have been addressed, the pain usually goes away.  When the pain is gone, the resistance disappears.

To be truthful, I’ve never been in a situation where this hasn’t been effective.  It’s amazing how accurate you can pinpoint problems and internal resistance by working with how your body feels.

Question #2:

“I’m at a different stage in my life than many of your readers/listeners. My husband and I are retired and getting more involved in volunteer activities.

My problem: many volunteer opportunities seem to involve a lot of “wheel-spinning”. Areas that need volunteers (education, for instance) are often ones which aren’t working well. But volunteers are expected to just help shore up the existing system. What seems to be needed is systemic change.

How do I, and others, become change agents in a way that makes sense and doesn’t threaten those operating within the systems so much that we are shut out?” ~ Margaret Smith Click here to read more…

Jun

29

How To Set The Right Goals

June 29, 2009 | 8 Comments


“One reason why people don’t achieve their goals is because they don’t know what part of them choose the goal.”  ~ John Kehoe

I think goal setting is one of the more important elements of personal growth.  Without goals there is no direction, no life and ultimately no growth.  Setting goals facilitates your evolution.

If you’re going to set goals, you want to make sure they are the “right” goals.  When I say the “right” goals I don’t mean that I’m right and you’re wrong.  There is no right and wrong, there is only what works and what doesn’t work.  You want to set goals that work.

How To Set The Right Goals

There are a lot of tools out there to help you set the right goals.  Just keep in mind that these are just tools and nothing more.  You could have all the right tools for goal setting but they would be useless if you didn’t set the right goals to begin with.

Setting the right goals means getting back to the basics; the principles that help you understand why goals manifest in the first place.  There are two principles that I follow for setting the right goals:

  • They have magnitude (or feeling power)
  • They have direction (meaning they are specific and measurable)

You want to think of velocity when setting the right goal.  If you think back to your math class, velocity is a vector; and a vector has two parts: it has magnitude and direction.  The right goals follow both of these principles.

How To Set The Right Goals - Two Principles

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 1

How to Set the Right Goals - Magnitude

The right goals have velocity.  They have magnitude and direction.

The magnitude of your goal is the feeling behind it.  It gives your goal power.  It puts you in gear.  It drives you to take action.

Taken from the velocity analogy, it’s the speed of your goal.  The greater the magnitude, the faster you go.

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 2

Feeling is absolutely necessary when setting the right goal.  It’s your feeling that brings you into resonance with what you want.  And when you resonate with what you want, it attracts the events, people and conditions into your life through the Law of Attraction.

If you want your goals to manifest, feel them.  That means choosing a goal that feels right to you.  It means choosing what you really want.  It sounds simple enough doesn’t it?

It is, but most people still seem to miss the boat.

They don’t set the right goals.  The don’t set goals that feel right to them.  They don’t go after what they really want, they go after what they think they can get.  And since an intellectual goal doesn’t associate feeling power, it almost useless.

How to Set the Right Goals - Image 3

3 Reasons Why You Don’t Go After What You Really Want

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May

14

Creative Visualization Insight #2

May 14, 2009 | 6 Comments


“Visualize this thing that you want, see it, feel it, believe in it. Make your mental blue print, and begin to build.”

~ Robert Collier

This is the second of three insights on creative visualization. You can go back and read the first post here:  Creative Visualization Insight #1.

Creative Visualization Insight #2: Associate Feelings

Visualization is one thing, but without strong feelings you won’t have the power to impress your image.  It’s like driving your car without any fuel.  You can have a clear direction (thought) for your car, but without any fuel (feeling) you won’t go very far.  Thought and feeling work together to bring power to the creative process.

Thought + Feeling = Creative Visualization

Feeling and Emotion

Feelings are different than emotions.  An emotion is a scattered feeling that moves in many different directions.  It’s a feeling that comes in waves of highs and lows.

You’ve probably had feelings of being pumped one day and then depressed or frustrated on another.  These are your emotions at work.  Take them as the come and express them - they’re a part of you.  Just don’t plan on using them to build your creative visualizations.

A feeling on the other hand is an emotion that is focused and directed by intentional thought.  Focus on creating feelings.  Feelings indicate your vibration.  It’s your vibration that attracts the like thoughts, circumstances, conditions and people into your life.

How do you associate feelings with your creative visualization?

Increase the Intensity of Your Creative Visualization

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May

13

Creative Visualization Insight #1

May 13, 2009 | 4 Comments


“When you visualize then you materialize.” - Dr. Denis Waitley

This is the first of a three part series on my creative visualization insights.  The whole intention of this series is to help you declutter your mind of self-limiting beliefs and unconscious programming.

The biggest blocker to achieve your goals has to do with unconscious programming.  I mean some people are pretty lazy and that’s their excuse, but I don’t buy it.  I can be lazy at times but I seem to do pretty well.

Success shouldn’t so hard - at least I don’t think so.  I think it has more to do with your unconscious success mechanism than anything else.  If I had to guess, I’d say that 95% of success is guided and directed by your unconscious.  All the more reason to study and understand how to re-program your mind, don’t you think?

The Creative Process

Thoughts are the starting point of all your results.  One of the most powerful ways that I have found to rewire unconscious programming and beliefs is by visualization -  if it’s done effectively.

The problem is that many people don’t know how to visualize effectively.  They make these tiny mistakes that greatly influence their end results.

Decide now that you will commit to apply and practice the creative visualization insights I’m going to share with you…. and most importantly, have some fun with them too!

Here is Insight #1.

Creative Visualization Insight #1: Consistency

Get into the habit of visualizing daily.  This practice will help you plant seeds of thought.   These seeds will grow into massive trees and bare the fruits of opportunity.

Consider this analogy.  Let’s say your deep within the Amazon, in dense jungle.  As you make your way through the jungle for the first time, there is a lot of resistance from vines and plants.  It can be very difficult in the beginning. The next time you walk through the same path, it gets easier to walk.

With each pass through the jungle there is less resistance than the time before.  It gets easier and the path through the jungle begins to widen.

How to Create Neural Highways of Thought

The same holds true with your mind.  Each time you visualize you’re creating new neural pathways of thought.  At first you may only create very thin neural strands, but with time and consistency these strands will grow into pathways and then highways of thought. It’s these highways of thought that become your new unconscious way of thinking.

When you’re effectively visualizing, you’re giving your unconscious mind instructions on new ways of thinking. It’s these neural highways that channel your most dominant thought patterns and beliefs.

The more energy and consistency you give to these new ways of thinking, the stronger the neural strand becomes. Repetition is the game.  If you repeat a phrase, picture or feeling to yourself enough times, you’ll start to believe it - regardless if you do now or not.

The more times you bring up these new images on the screen of your mind, the easier it gets. Be consistent and visualize for at least five minutes every day.

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Apr

8

5 Part Mini Course on Visualization

April 8, 2009 | 8 Comments


“For every gift you’ve opened over the years, there are hundreds that you’ve never unwrapped and taken out of the package. This unused potential hides there, just waiting to play a role in your quantum leap.” ~ Price Pritchett

Why is there unused potential?

There is unused potential because of subconscious programming. The great majority of us only work with a fraction of our potential because of this built-in programming.

Subconscious programming will limit your results because your conscious mind is saying one thing (words or a written goal) and your subconscious mind (emotions) are doing another. It’s like driving your car at full speed with the brakes on.

When you begin to align the conscious and subconscious minds with your goals, you harmonize and begin to use your full potential. You’re still applying the same pressure to the gas, but now you let go of the breaks while you drive.

Creating alignment between your conscious and subconscious mind is an important step to realizing your goals. You can create this alignment by learning how to effectively visualize.

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Mar

31

How to Increase Your Attractiveness

March 31, 2009 | Leave a Comment


This article is the fifth in a series of articles on How to Triple Your Income as a Consultant.

If you want to attract money as a consultant you’ve got to attract the people who are going to pay you.  What better way to attract the right people, than by improving your likability.

People want to work with other people that they like.  People are attracted to others who are attractive; not just in a physical sense, but those people who they enjoy being around - the people that make them feel good.  It’s natural to want to work with people that make you feel good.

Attractiveness

When I was working in my salary job, I had a problem with the president.  I didn’t like the way he behaved.  He was one of these guys that would promise you the world, but had poor follow through.  He had a political background and of course I had my “opinions” about that.

In my eyes, he was out of integrity.  He would say one thing and then do another and I didn’t like it.

But this didn’t help matters.  It actually made it worse because I was relying on the president’s behavior to change the way I felt about him.  And since this was out of my control you can clearly see I had a problem.

Improve Your Attractiveness

When I started to think and behave differently around the president, our relationship improved.  I started to develop a deeper appreciation for him.  I even started to offer small gestures of thanks now and again.

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Mar

2

The No.1 Strategy to Make You Feel Better

March 2, 2009 | 11 Comments


This strategy works for me every time and it will work for you too - to make you feel better; and here’s the best part.  It’s so simple.  You can do it at home, at work, with friends or family - with anyone at all.  You could do it with a total stranger!

What am I talking about?  Feeling good.  It helps you feel better inside and here’s how it works.  In order to feel better, you want to stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about someone else.  Then when you start thinking of them, you do something very specific…..

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The No.1 Strategy to Make You Feel Better

Jan

6

Should You Visualize in the 1st or 3rd person?

January 6, 2009 | 11 Comments


What do you think?  Should you Visualize in the 1st or 3rd person?  Both methods are valuable and helpful for different reasons - but if you use the wrong method at the wrong time, you’ll be well into your next lifetime before you manifest what you want.

Before I go there, let me explain what I mean by the 1st and 3rd person.

1st person would be through your own eyes, or in an associated state.  In this case you are in fact the dreamer doing the visualization.

3rd person would be from outside your body, or in a disassociated state. In this case you’re the observer - or ghost - watching the dreamer.

Visualizing as the dreamer triggers the emotional or subconscious mind to develop feelings for the things you want. This feeling triggers a change in vibration. Attraction is preceded by vibration.  Get into the right vibration and you will attract the things you want.

How do you change your vibration?

By changing your feelings.  Here is a quick test to do exactly that.

Just be the observer at this point.  Imagine that you’re on the beach somewhere hot, maybe the Caribbean.  Now picture yourself sitting on the beach, lying in the sand staring up into the sky.  Notice how you feel.

This time become the dreamer.  Actually step inside your body and look through your own eyes.  Feel the heat radiating from the sunshine and the sand beneath your feet.  Hear the waves crashing upon the shore line and the breeze whispering in your ear.  See the beautiful colors in the sky and the brightness of the sun. How did you feel this time?

Remember that being in the dreamer state is the way to develop powerful feelings.  Being the observer helps you distant yourself - or move away from experiencing your feelings.

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