How to “Pin-Point” Poor Self-Esteem From a Mile Away

Self esteem issues come from a poor self image.  It’s not something “outside” you that gives you the confidence to be brave and bold. It’s always what is inside of you.  In this video I share an experience I had with someone who had poor self esteem – and what you can do to raise your own self esteem to gain the courage to pursue your goals even through adversity.

Check it out:


43 Comments

  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • bluecharm08F

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

    I love all your videos Stephen. You are truly inspiring, i replay your videos more than twice so i can absorb all your great advice.

  • KittySLifeStyle

    Reply Reply September 11, 2011

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  • Rick

    Reply Reply September 12, 2011

    Awesome once again Steve! The way you convey your message is perfect and easy to understand! Thx for sharing!!

  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • Nancy Margaret

    Reply Reply October 7, 2011

    Thanks for the share!
    Nancy

  • Leszek Cyfer

    Reply Reply October 11, 2011

    The way to internalize self esteem of a strong person is to model someone strong.

    A good way for that is reading fiction with such a person – reading fiction makes you identify with the main hero. You, so to say, use a “flight simulator” of being such a person.

    http://www.farnamstreetblog.com/2011/09/is-reading-fiction-good-for-you/

    That effect is also working with movies, albeit weaker as you observe someone acting, not “see” world through eyes of hero(ine).

    So what is your favorite hero from fiction books? I admit I love “Wild West” heroes of Karol May, or Alaskan ones of Jack London – especially Smoke Bellew – being a hero who transforms from a person I can identify with into a hardened adventurous veteran.

    Can you give us some examples of such heroes, such transformations from your favorite fiction books?

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  • Steve

    Reply Reply October 11, 2011

    Hey Leszek,

    I do have hero’s, but what I find inspiring about them may not inspire you… and in the end, it really depends on what you’re trying to accomplish; what you’re looking to achieve.

    If you want to be a savvy business person, then model people who inspire you in that area; if you’re looking to be a better manager, then find people and model them in that area. If you’re looking to run a successful human potential/personal development business, then model people in that area.

    You need to find your own models as those are the people who will connect with your vision and inspire you the most. Maybe I could put a post together on people who have inspired me… but this is definitely a good place to start: 50 Best Life Coaches in the World

  • Leszek Cyfer

    Reply Reply October 11, 2011

    I didn’t asked for real people only characters from fiction books – you know – like Huckleberry Finn, Winnetou, Dagny Taggart etc.

    What fiction books give is the simulacra of real life and real emotions.

    That’s what I asked for – your favourite fictional characters :)

  • Andrea

    Reply Reply November 3, 2011

    That was acually the most interesting thing when I read that, because I acually just came from the supermarket and when I went in this peticular time, I knew beforehand what I wanted and it was just 2 things, but get this, the interesting thing was that from the time I got out of the car I realized that I was projecting confidence by the way I was walking cuse I had something to do and was going straight for it. Now, weather conciously thinking it, or subconciously, I realized it therefore upon the realization, my confedence was even boosted more. but either way i knew it and it was surpizing to read that after that just happening

    But at the same time, when I went to ask for help from the one girl, n she was kinda cute, I didnt have that same confidence.

    so anyway if your wondering how such the coincidence,
    well when I got home I googled the word “Confidence” so thats how I got here. Cuse I said to myself I said “self” your gonna get so self confidence.

  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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  • palebluedot4ev

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  • palebluedot4ev

    Reply Reply December 2, 2011

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    Reply Reply February 1, 2012

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    Reply Reply April 2, 2012

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    Reply Reply April 2, 2012

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  • yonacurtis

    Reply Reply October 3, 2012

    its called the mirror affect, place a mirror in front of anyone who is speaking and thats what they are saying to them self, its fascinating to watch this in social interactions, body language is a interesting thing to notice as well, you can literally read there mind because they are speaking it

  • Omgitsville

    Reply Reply February 28, 2013

    I guess I know a lot of people with poor self-esteem xD. I get comments like that all the time. Thanks for the video!

  • lenal1lel

    Reply Reply August 28, 2013

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  • Primrose Chimhanda

    Reply Reply September 8, 2013

    Great Video! Thank you. Appreciate it :)

  • maillaarni

    Reply Reply September 10, 2013

    So if you are saying others have low self-esteem that means you have low self-esteem also. Because you can’t see what is in others if you can’t see it in yourself.

  • hello world

    Reply Reply October 18, 2013

    repetitive when necessary, very insightful, very helpful. Thank you.

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