How to Deal With Negative People and Their Negative Thoughts

Don’t you just love it, when you tell someone you’re going to do something that’s never been done before and they say, “You can’t do that!” And then somehow that idea seem to stick in your head, playing over and over again.

Know what I mean?

How to Deal With Negative People (and their Negative Thoughts)

The real trick is recognize what I call your conditioned response. You see, sometimes another person will say something and that triggers the PLAY button to one of a million mental programs. This isn’t true for everyone, but you might want to take this little test first to be sure.

Here’s the video:

205 Comments

  • bbqpanties

    Reply Reply February 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] I usually say “um, yes, I can actually.” lol

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply February 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Good on ya!

  • Steve Martile

    Reply Reply February 5, 2010

    Good on ya!

  • 03mrobinson

    Reply Reply March 7, 2010

    [..YouTube..] good thing i watched till the end because when you said picture your mothers voice lol my mothers the one who passes uneccery comments :L

  • 03mrobinson

    Reply Reply March 7, 2010

    good thing i watched till the end because when you said picture your
    mothers voice lol my mothers the one who passes uneccery comments :L

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply March 8, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @03mrobinson:

    I know exactly what you’re talking about ;)

  • 03mrobinson

    Reply Reply March 8, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thats just women though i guess

  • Digzezimaox

    Reply Reply March 27, 2010

    [..YouTube..] ur an idiot! lol Just kidding lol great video

  • draganamirkovic7

    Reply Reply May 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This technique is beyond retarded. Complete waste of time. The problems associated with people feeling an affinity towards negative people is a serious lack of self-esteem and self love. The only way to get those negative voices and negative people out of your life is to get out of the negative rut you’re in and believing in yourself.

  • jon77479

    Reply Reply June 28, 2010

    [..YouTube..] check out my video on dealing with haters i have alot of them LOL

  • jon77479

    Reply Reply June 28, 2010

    [..YouTube..] check out my video on dealing with haters i have alot of them LOL

  • jon77479

    Reply Reply June 28, 2010

    [..YouTube..] check out my video on dealing with haters i have alot of them LOL

  • jon77479

    Reply Reply June 28, 2010

    [..YouTube..] check out my video on dealing with haters i have alot of them LOL

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to positivity buddy.

  • 777turner777

    Reply Reply July 26, 2010

    @draganamirkovic7 I’m not necessarily disagreeing with you but I can tell
    you’re a negative nancy yourself. There’s a difference between discerning
    and judging – you seem to like to judge. Not exactly on a straight road to
    positivity buddy.

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice… =)

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice… =)

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice… =)

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice… =)

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice…  =)

  • cosmicsparkle

    Reply Reply August 5, 2010

    [..YouTube..] thanks for the advice… =)

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply August 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @cosmicsparkle:

    Your welcome :-)

    Steve

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply August 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @cosmicsparkle:

    Your welcome :-)

    Steve

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply August 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @cosmicsparkle:

    Your welcome :-)

    Steve

  • Steve Martile

    Reply Reply August 6, 2010

    @cosmicsparkle: Your welcome :-) Steve

  • atulthakur07

    Reply Reply August 9, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Very good technique. Will try it

  • atulthakur07

    Reply Reply August 9, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Very good technique. Will try it

  • atulthakur07

    Reply Reply August 9, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Very good technique. Will try it

  • atulthakur07

    Reply Reply August 9, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Very good technique. Will try it

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] @Digzezimaox Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • LavaEaglez

    Reply Reply September 1, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Hahaha this caught me by surprise

    This is an excellent technique and your absolutely right about the tone! When I have something I am in bad habit of I start acknowledging it in funny high and low voices until it’s so ridiculous and desensitized it doesn’t mean anything.

  • broadcastmyass4u

    Reply Reply September 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This video didn’t help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

  • broadcastmyass4u

    Reply Reply September 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This video didn’t help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

  • broadcastmyass4u

    Reply Reply September 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This video didn’t help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

  • broadcastmyass4u

    Reply Reply September 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This video didn’t help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

  • broadcastmyass4u

    Reply Reply September 6, 2010

    [..YouTube..] This video didn’t help me, it only offended me by talking about my dead mother :(

  • SevastopolKrim

    Reply Reply September 23, 2010

    [..YouTube..] You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

  • SevastopolKrim

    Reply Reply September 23, 2010

    [..YouTube..] You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

  • SevastopolKrim

    Reply Reply September 23, 2010

    [..YouTube..] You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

  • SevastopolKrim

    Reply Reply September 23, 2010

    [..YouTube..] You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

  • SevastopolKrim

    Reply Reply September 23, 2010

    You are awesome!!!! Thank you!!! :)))) Great technic!

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • lllooollnnnlloooll

    Reply Reply September 30, 2010

    [..YouTube..] Just wanted to try something and see how it works out, so here it goes… on Monday, October 4th 2010 compliment 5 people you don’t know and forward this message to friends. Let’s see how far this spreads.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply January 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] this was very enlightening. I realised i automatically believe to be true whatever my mum says to me! great video. next time gotta put that negative voice in a homer voice! haha.

  • 500deegrez

    Reply Reply January 9, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Great video

  • 500deegrez

    Reply Reply January 9, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Great video

  • 500deegrez

    Reply Reply January 9, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Great video

  • MrSimonnadar

    Reply Reply January 21, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i need some one like this to advice me

  • MrSimonnadar

    Reply Reply January 21, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i need some one like this to advice me

  • MrSimonnadar

    Reply Reply January 21, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i need some one like this to advice me

  • MrSimonnadar

    Reply Reply January 21, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i need some one like this to advice me

  • MrSimonnadar

    Reply Reply January 21, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i need some one like this to advice me

  • m3rmaid1985

    Reply Reply February 13, 2011

    [..YouTube..] That’s incredible, thankyou very much!

  • m3rmaid1985

    Reply Reply February 13, 2011

    [..YouTube..] That’s incredible, thankyou very much!

  • m3rmaid1985

    Reply Reply February 13, 2011

    [..YouTube..] That’s incredible, thankyou very much!

  • m3rmaid1985

    Reply Reply February 13, 2011

    [..YouTube..] That’s incredible, thankyou very much!

  • m3rmaid1985

    Reply Reply February 13, 2011

    That’s incredible, thankyou very much!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works wonders!

  • Solus3

    Reply Reply May 15, 2011

    I love this technique! I took a Psychology of Personal Effectiveness class
    that taught “reframing” which is exactly what you’re advising! Its very
    cool because there are many ways to do it. I find your technique works
    wonders!

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] This is what helped me from an abusive father… whenever he tells me something like… I’m stupid… I just respond by saying…. Well dad. Look at your own shitty life and how fucked up it turned out to be…. you think your opinion is worth for shit???

    To be honest, I haven’t found any successful person being negative, only failures tend to be negative and drag others down with them so that they don’t feel too bad about themselves.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @Simon0
    I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • nickintp

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    @Simon0 I just hope that you go to college and break free from the chains
    that your family try to lock you up in. That’s what happened to me. College
    set me free from all of the negatively in my life. My own family is the
    poison and the road they tried to put my on was one that they can look down
    on so that they can feel good about themselves and not feel like a complete
    failure in comparison to the failure that they tried to make of me. I no
    longer care for them… they are like retards.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    [..YouTube..] my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel. Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of friendly people can be very healing.

  • Simon0

    Reply Reply May 28, 2011

    @nickintp my dad has been quite cruel to me in the past. i never quite
    understand it because i am sure he loves me yet he can also be quite cruel.
    Anyway great that college helped you. sometimes being aroudn group of
    friendly people can be very healing.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid. Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius.

    Keep it up.

  • EenGedachte

    Reply Reply June 10, 2011

    I’ve seen several videos and I love them. Your advice is really solid.
    Besides that, I laughed for like 10 minutes about the silliness of changing
    someones voice to Homer Simpsons voice. Pure genius. Keep it up.

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • stephenmartile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    [..YouTube..] @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • Steve Martile

    Reply Reply June 22, 2011

    @EenGedachte: yeah, that Homer Simpson one is good :)

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • ATOMIC1974T

    Reply Reply September 6, 2011

    Easy lesson, I must try that out. Ive read if someone says something negative bout you or you think bad bout yourself: add the words “But Iam(he,she,they) just thinking that” in your mind. It works like a defensive shield…

  • biskotaime

    Reply Reply September 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] :’)

  • biskotaime

    Reply Reply September 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] :’)

  • biskotaime

    Reply Reply September 15, 2011

    :’)

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    [..YouTube..] see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • RK1m1

    Reply Reply October 17, 2011

    see my problem is that peopel in my family r positive, but biggest bully is my own mind who says: “oh u did that way? u could do this better, alas, u created a bad image, what is he or she thinking, they might hate u by now”….

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    [..YouTube..] damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • Mitar446

    Reply Reply October 27, 2011

    damn for some reason i felt like really angry trying theese techniques with phrase in my head “ You cant do that“ from mom , dad etc. and than H.S. lol that was the last drop so , the point is if i was in a lets say kickboxing match ,which is my sport by the way , i would fuckin kill the dude in the ring lol …. maybe this shit is dangerous :)

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • cosmicmantis

    Reply Reply November 6, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Oh man…

    This ties in completely to my previous comment about how your advice was made to turn people into mindless positive idiots. So you’re saying that all other negative comments do not affect you except “you’re an idiot”? “You’re an idiot” is the one thing that RESONATES with you? That little “voice” is your CONSCIENCE!!… HAHAHAHAHA…

  • ninoopen

    Reply Reply January 13, 2012

    [..YouTube..] super tip… a great guy really

  • ninoopen

    Reply Reply January 13, 2012

    [..YouTube..] super tip… a great guy really

  • Nihad Misirlic

    Reply Reply January 13, 2012

    super tip… a great guy really

  • Martha

    Reply Reply January 20, 2012

    I did not watch the video but read it.
    My room mate was negative at least towards me, asking me a lof of questions, also very personal ones. I did answer them as I dont know how not to answer them, and than she made few times comments that hurt me. Another time I said,, I will do this, or that.. and than no matter what I said her response was ,, Do you think it is that easy,, someone I know did this and .. bla bla /…. ANSWER was negative…. I am at the point that I stopped believeng in myself and I am so down..Feel like I can not do any job ……Do not wish that to anyone. I want to run from her , but I am stuck for now……for financial reasons….

    • Steve

      Reply Reply January 20, 2012

      Hey Martha… stop telling her what you’re going to do… and just quietly go and do it!

  • bvgatti

    Reply Reply January 23, 2012

    [..YouTube..] most people issues and complexes are due to family environment,lack of parenthood awarness or understanding of the effect of psychology on their childrens ,that’s beside schools,friends,traditions,religions and societies.i think to break the cycle of thoughts, that causes doubt,fear,guilt or any other emotion that cause our mind to create our own delusional realities,is to direct your focus inward by stoping from talking to your mind and listenening more to your breath.The sound of silence.

  • bvgatti

    Reply Reply January 23, 2012

    [..YouTube..] most people issues and complexes are due to family environment,lack of parenthood awarness or understanding of the effect of psychology on their childrens ,that’s beside schools,friends,traditions,religions and societies.i think to break the cycle of thoughts, that causes doubt,fear,guilt or any other emotion that cause our mind to create our own delusional realities,is to direct your focus inward by stoping from talking to your mind and listenening more to your breath.The sound of silence.

  • bvgatti

    Reply Reply January 23, 2012

    most people issues and complexes are due to family environment,lack of parenthood awarness or understanding of the effect of psychology on their childrens ,that’s beside schools,friends,traditions,religions and societies.i think to break the cycle of thoughts, that causes doubt,fear,guilt or any other emotion that cause our mind to create our own delusional realities,is to direct your focus inward by stoping from talking to your mind and listenening more to your breath.The sound of silence.

  • tuffythetiger

    Reply Reply February 20, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Good and natural technique, but this is something that you should be done until you naturally replace those feelings, actions are a result, no actions no results.This technique eventually is part of your behavior automatically and subconsciously and that is when its deeply embedded.

  • tuffythetiger

    Reply Reply February 20, 2012

    Good and natural technique, but this is something that you should be done until you naturally replace those feelings, actions are a result, no actions no results.This technique eventually is part of your behavior automatically and subconsciously and that is when its deeply embedded.

  • hunyhuny35

    Reply Reply February 22, 2012

    [..YouTube..] omgsh you’re so hot, AND YOUR CANADIAN <3

  • hunyhuny35

    Reply Reply February 22, 2012

    omgsh you’re so hot, AND YOUR CANADIAN <3

  • Ninjomaa

    Reply Reply March 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] nice i was a but doubtful at first but really does sound like an interesting way to deal with negative people.

  • chait8

    Reply Reply March 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] yah now i get it..all those ppl who were rude n hurtful, ‘how’ they said it affected me more than than’what’ they said.
    and generally people who bring me down are very confident and convincing. so they easily influence me. how do you deal with that?

  • chait8

    Reply Reply March 18, 2012

    yah now i get it..all those ppl who were rude n hurtful, ‘how’ they said it affected me more than than’what’ they said.
    and generally people who bring me down are very confident and convincing. so they easily influence me. how do you deal with that?

  • darknessesstar

    Reply Reply March 27, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Oh !! I think Iḿ from another planet .. Thanks

  • darknessesstar

    Reply Reply March 27, 2012

    Oh !! I think Iḿ from another planet .. Thanks

  • SincGr4nt

    Reply Reply April 3, 2012

    [..YouTube..] god…. why do people make such a fuss over someone that’s being a knob to them. That’s life. Except it and ignore them…

  • SincGr4nt

    Reply Reply April 3, 2012

    god…. why do people make such a fuss over someone that’s being a knob to them. That’s life. Except it and ignore them…

  • Cedescal

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I put you must not be from this planet in homer’s voice

  • Cedescal

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    I put you must not be from this planet in homer’s voice

  • ronfly13

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    [..YouTube..] 3 WAYS
    1. Leave their company…friends are to bring the best out of and not hurt u
    2. Learn to fight back…Bullys dont mean what they say, they say just to bring u down
    3. Have friends and people on ur side….look for happiness,laughter and fun
    Best of luck!!!!

  • ronfly13

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    3 WAYS
    1. Leave their company…friends are to bring the best out of and not hurt u
    2. Learn to fight back…Bullys dont mean what they say, they say just to bring u down
    3. Have friends and people on ur side….look for happiness,laughter and fun
    Best of luck!!!!

  • SBecky94

    Reply Reply April 8, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I’m sorry, but I have to say it. I think you’re really cute 0.0

  • SBecky94

    Reply Reply April 8, 2012

    I’m sorry, but I have to say it. I think you’re really cute 0.0

  • Supablonde1

    Reply Reply April 9, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I think he’s married!!!!!

  • Supablonde1

    Reply Reply April 9, 2012

    I think he’s married!!!!!

  • geensglows2

    Reply Reply April 11, 2012

    [..YouTube..] You are awesome! Thanks for all your advice. :)

  • geensglows2

    Reply Reply April 11, 2012

    You are awesome! Thanks for all your advice. :)

  • Tanatie

    Reply Reply April 28, 2012

    [..YouTube..] me three…

  • Tanatie

    Reply Reply April 28, 2012

    [..YouTube..] me three…

  • Tanatie

    Reply Reply April 28, 2012

    me three…

  • Nkereal

    Reply Reply May 9, 2012

    [..YouTube..] dude my life is miserable because people judge me everywhere i go!!!! im depressed so alot of the time i feel dead inside, have no self asteem and give off the wrong vibe……. I sometimes walk akward bcuz of my depression and people start laughing under there breath at me and i snap and call them out. how do I look normal i fucking hate being the center of attention in a negative way….my life sucks because of this

  • Nkereal

    Reply Reply May 9, 2012

    dude my life is miserable because people judge me everywhere i go!!!! im depressed so alot of the time i feel dead inside, have no self asteem and give off the wrong vibe……. I sometimes walk akward bcuz of my depression and people start laughing under there breath at me and i snap and call them out. how do I look normal i fucking hate being the center of attention in a negative way….my life sucks because of this

  • KillaGamer09

    Reply Reply June 25, 2012

    peter griffin voice :D

  • chunkymom2110

    Reply Reply July 11, 2012

    man what the fuck is this shit dude go to the local gym and get a membership and lose the little green bean arms you got . when you go to the gym just tell them the jolly green giant sent you there

  • Applebaum

    Reply Reply July 17, 2012

    my mother is the negative person i need to distance myself from

  • Herewizard

    Reply Reply July 18, 2012

    lmao

  • Herewizard

    Reply Reply July 18, 2012

    Haha thats so tight dude

  • MaryTheLady25

    Reply Reply August 10, 2012

    very informative. thank you

  • MrJoeDaddyMac

    Reply Reply November 4, 2012

    I hear my moms voice and now I feel pissed off! Thanks for nothing,…. NOTHING!! XD

  • simplythebest286

    Reply Reply March 7, 2013

    thanks man !!! when I imagine it with homer’s voice , I think ; why should I listen to you? you’re homer simpson , go fuck yourself hahahahahahahahha it works for me hahahahah

  • vessago7

    Reply Reply March 21, 2013

    I used peter griffins voice along with his laff lol xD . Nice thanks for the video ^^ very good advice !

  • leeyon2009

    Reply Reply March 28, 2013

    no one can tell you what you cant do, only you can judge yourself

  • ytemsg

    Reply Reply April 1, 2013

    No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made Him known – JESUS CHRIST IS LORD

  • terran236

    Reply Reply April 10, 2013

    I’m not a typical negative person. I actually encourage people when they have dreams. Im like, “go for it man!” But i am very negative and bitter most of the time. I think im just a warped crazy bastard lol. Best way for toxic negative people to deal with them selves is to just die imo.

  • Xavier BenJamin

    Reply Reply April 11, 2013

    You are so fine0)

  • Xavier BenJamin

    Reply Reply April 11, 2013

    I have infinite healing words for any bullshit I hear) So only fine words is what I tell myself.

  • Grace Garcia

    Reply Reply July 5, 2013

    let me give you some hug :) I was the same as you before I came across this site —> theyaymeuniversity. com it changed me a lot!

  • Grace Garcia

    Reply Reply July 5, 2013

    leeyon is right ‘they cant do that’ lol :) by the way video is nice. check this video also it has the coolest way of dealing with negative people that come in disguise. LOL She gives them names and everything. Hilarious! youtube.com/watch?v=5VJ8MzOMNjQ

  • ArtDocHounds

    Reply Reply July 15, 2013

    yo. figure it out. your camera has a shitty mic. get it together, son.

  • Neshan Tony khalifa Amro

    Reply Reply July 21, 2013

    Thanks ….

  • cmielak

    Reply Reply August 26, 2013

    Donald Duck working better on me;) You can’t do that..kwa kwa

  • Dominique Saavedra

    Reply Reply January 22, 2014

    Thank you, I needed this for my rough life and I’m just a teenager-16 year
    old. Life for a teen ain’t easy when you try to do best for your own life.
    Even when I have grown brother-34 year old-that still with mommy-42 year
    old. A brother that is spoil, lazy and easily get very angry(I.e. Change
    the channel, eat left over food, etcetera) is hard to live without being
    stress out. In fact, I’m the only non-athletic child in my family. Anyways,
    I can say more, but it can be a whole book. Please help me!

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