7 Signs of Low Self Esteem

Raising your self esteem could be the very thing that sets you apart from the crowd.  A high self esteem increases your performance, leverages your productivity and gives you the courage to act in spite of fear.  In this video I share the 7 signs of low self esteem.  I also give a little background to explain how self esteem works and what you need to do to raise your self esteem.

Let me know how you like…

Here at the 7 Signs of Low Self Esteem:

  • Indecisive
  • Negative Self-Talk
  • Fear of Rejection
  • Being Materialistic
  • A Need to Express Your Accomplishments Publicly
  • Value Other Opinions More Than Your Own
  • Link Self Esteem to External Conditions


275 Comments

  • OrigamiByJay

    Reply Reply May 30, 2011

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  • kiaspicey

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  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

  • JustMe234501

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    [..YouTube..] I can sometimes recognizes myself in a sign, but now tell me how can i get better self esteem. :)

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    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

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  • Chris

    Reply Reply May 31, 2011

    Great video. FEAR. False Evedence Appearing Real.

  • Yansterznufsed

    Reply Reply June 1, 2011

    [..YouTube..] thank you so much for this stephen. Big help!

  • Yansterznufsed

    Reply Reply June 1, 2011

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    Reply Reply June 1, 2011

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  • IHeartAmberley

    Reply Reply July 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i have very low self esteem :( thx this video really helped

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    Reply Reply July 15, 2011

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    Reply Reply July 15, 2011

    [..YouTube..] i have very low self esteem :( thx this video really helped

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • 4crazythings

    Reply Reply July 18, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Stephen can you make another video on steps to take to improve ones self esteem? you touched on than but a little more info on this subject would be great! Thanks.

  • abdirizak2hot

    Reply Reply August 19, 2011

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    Reply Reply August 19, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Thanks dude

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    Reply Reply September 4, 2011

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  • TheMarilynLife

    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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    Reply Reply September 28, 2011

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  • jambrandon531

    Reply Reply October 12, 2011

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    Reply Reply October 12, 2011

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  • TheIntunecatu

    Reply Reply December 20, 2011

    [..YouTube..] so fucking true , this is amazing , all the things you said really happened to me even the ex. with the car happened to me, now i ma trying to sell it lol

  • CMac6662666

    Reply Reply December 23, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Does that mean that, thinking positive, works?

  • CMac6662666

    Reply Reply December 23, 2011

    [..YouTube..] Does that mean that, thinking positive, works?

  • MissChicClick

    Reply Reply January 9, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I have all of these :( I care more about what people say about me more then anything

  • TheRoadkillofficial

    Reply Reply January 13, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I share my accomplishments not to feel better about who i am, i do it to make others look shitty.

  • Steve

    Reply Reply January 14, 2012

    @ TheRoadkillofficial: At least you’re honest :)

  • leejee88

    Reply Reply February 7, 2012

    [..YouTube..] :In shock:…this is me to a T ..thank you soo much for this video im serious ..im not religious type but god bless you

  • agenthelios1

    Reply Reply February 12, 2012

    [..YouTube..] This is crazy. I watched the video, outwardly I appear to be successful, but my success is driven by fear of being inadequate. I think I suffer from low self esteem and It stems from having been poor growing up.

    I second guess myself

  • agenthelios1

    Reply Reply February 12, 2012

    [..YouTube..] But at the same time I talk about my accomplishments because others will try and hide your accomplishments from everyone because your overachieving makes them look bad.

    So if you dont toot your own horn no one will.

  • Management52

    Reply Reply February 15, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Thank you

  • 420Chronin

    Reply Reply February 16, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Im growing to be more mature in life over the past year and i just realized i have this problem with confidence and low self esteem , thank you for helping me out, i went to school today and felt way more confident holding my head up and not asking my self the questions your talking about in the video

  • knelledkismet

    Reply Reply February 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] they say not to blame your parents or formative years, and uv suggested that making excuses are bad. i would remind that there is a thin line between excuses and reasons, and would like to site the phenoenon of ferral children. its been proven that after a certain age, children who are not able to hear spoken language cannot learn it. i want to draw the paralel, that trauma from those formative years, via child abuse, can make one unable to change his thoughts concerning what he learned early on

  • Bamseskutt

    Reply Reply February 20, 2012

    [..YouTube..] @TheRoadkillofficial Same fucking thing, omg ur stupid.

  • Bamseskutt

    Reply Reply February 20, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Same fucking thing, omg ur stupid.

  • TheRoadkillofficial

    Reply Reply February 21, 2012

    [..YouTube..] @Bamseskutt No I’m not you fucking dumass, in case you didn’t read the title, these are SIGNS, if you indirectly have ONE of these 7 signs, that doesn’t mean you have low self esteem. And lets say, just for the sake of argument I’m wrong here, if you think I’m stupid just because YOU don’t agree with me, then i’m sorry my low IQ friend, but your the stupid one here, So next time look at yourself in the mirror, n call yourself stupid, And you might actually learn something in your SHIT life!

  • TheRoadkillofficial

    Reply Reply February 21, 2012

    [..YouTube..] No I’m not you fucking dumass, in case you didn’t read the title, these are SIGNS, if you indirectly have ONE of these 7 signs, that doesn’t mean you have low self esteem. And lets say, just for the sake of argument I’m wrong here, if you think I’m stupid just because YOU don’t agree with me, then i’m sorry my low IQ friend, but your the stupid one here, So next time look at yourself in the mirror, n call yourself stupid, And you might actually learn something in your SHIT life!

  • Bamseskutt

    Reply Reply February 22, 2012

    [..YouTube..] @TheRoadkillofficial “I share my accomplishments not to feel better about who i am, i do it to make others look shitty.”
    Why would you want others to look shit? What is the purpose of your attacks? Why are you talking about my “shit” life? Low selfesteem is oozing out of you my friend, learn from this video.

  • Bamseskutt

    Reply Reply February 22, 2012

    [..YouTube..] “I share my accomplishments not to feel better about who i am, i do it to make others look shitty.”
    Why would you want others to look shit? What is the purpose of your attacks? Why are you talking about my “shit” life? Low selfesteem is oozing out of you my friend, learn from this video.

  • MrUNiCORNSTUFFR

    Reply Reply February 25, 2012

    [..YouTube..] :O

  • xKaramela

    Reply Reply February 26, 2012

    [..YouTube..] omg awesome video!!! <333

  • HielooNiceWeather

    Reply Reply February 27, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Smile, you’ll feel better :D

  • akinnon2000

    Reply Reply February 29, 2012

    [..YouTube..] mind blowing

  • iamxieqi

    Reply Reply March 2, 2012

    [..YouTube..] very informative and educational.I am one of those who always blame themselves for most they did and have a very bad self-image about themselves.after i saw your video,i clearly realize that all these trouble and sufferings can be removed,most of them are not true and are made by ourselves in a light of false self-recognition.just stop being picky about ourselves,accept who we are,everything can be so nice!

  • ahriman46

    Reply Reply March 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] intelligent guy

  • P4UL1000

    Reply Reply March 15, 2012

    [..YouTube..] materialistic is so me

  • angstyave

    Reply Reply March 15, 2012

    [..YouTube..] if you feel all of these all the time are you depressed?

  • angstyave

    Reply Reply March 15, 2012

    [..YouTube..] if you feel all of these all the time are you depressed?

  • TheEuropeanWoman

    Reply Reply March 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] @angstyave Depression is anger at someone who made you hurt, but that anger you turned on yourself instead outwards.

  • TheEuropeanWoman

    Reply Reply March 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Depression is anger at someone who made you hurt, but that anger you turned on yourself instead outwards.

  • Quartrez

    Reply Reply March 31, 2012

    [..YouTube..] … No it’s not.

  • ronfly13

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    [..YouTube..] thanx man…it was a pleasure listening

  • ronfly13

    Reply Reply April 4, 2012

    [..YouTube..] thanx man…it was a pleasure listening

  • abglane

    Reply Reply April 8, 2012

    [..YouTube..] i have all these

  • TubetjeTandpasta

    Reply Reply April 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Me too! I’m very happy with this video. I believe that now I recognise these 7 things in myself and others; these things will lose some power over me. When I don’t compare myself anymore to (some) other people and stop judging myself and others about looks, accomplishments, choices or anything, I will feel more free to live my life in a way I can feel good about. Some of these things in a mild form are still okay for me to stay social but I try not to act and depend on these things any longer! X

  • slykwitit

    Reply Reply April 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] thank you for the video… Very helpful for what I’m going through

  • gabsylv

    Reply Reply April 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] One must also be conscious of certain social environments conducive to the perpetuation of low self-image.

  • Maniak5100

    Reply Reply April 12, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Meditation/Contemplation is a bountiful source of knowledge that one can use to not only pick up self esteem, but go as far as fly right over and past it.

  • alaniapple13

    Reply Reply April 14, 2012

    [..YouTube..] haha friends like that ¡¡¡

  • kikutokatana1

    Reply Reply April 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I was doing all these signs without even realizing! I should try to get out from the bad way of thinking. Nice video. Thanks.

  • AzizaCelina

    Reply Reply April 20, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I have all of those signs…. :(

  • AzizaCelina

    Reply Reply April 20, 2012

    [..YouTube..] I have all of those signs…. :(

  • davielove11

    Reply Reply April 21, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Nice stuff…

  • DrakenGuardz

    Reply Reply April 21, 2012

    [..YouTube..] You’re beautiful.

  • theexoticspirit

    Reply Reply April 30, 2012

    [..YouTube..] you made a very good point here. thank you for sharing.

  • souleaterluvyxd

    Reply Reply April 30, 2012

    [..YouTube..] This was so helpful! Thanks.. I have all these signs its crazy I never knew it lol

  • MrHussain27

    Reply Reply May 7, 2012

    [..YouTube..] damn i hav all the 7 symptoms….but the good thing is ,after watchin ths video i feel lik a king….thaks steve it was really good

  • cashqaiser

    Reply Reply May 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] nice stuff

  • cashqaiser

    Reply Reply May 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] nice stuff

  • 3847BabyGirl1029

    Reply Reply May 10, 2012

    [..YouTube..] im all of them but i kinda knew i had low self esteem and i also dont really talk to anyone and do you think you can help with that and its not that im shy i just dont know how to talk to people or trust them anymore from what people did to me in the past

  • sirtom23

    Reply Reply May 14, 2012

    [..YouTube..] that was awesome.. thanks

  • QualityTubes

    Reply Reply May 16, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Forget about the 7 signs. How about 1 major sign.. Clicking on your link to watch this stupid video…..!!!

  • jpaigeh

    Reply Reply May 18, 2012

    [..YouTube..] THis didn’t help me at all! It just made me realize I have low self esteem!

  • [..YouTube..] I just realised that i have all 7 signs

  • just4all1

    Reply Reply May 22, 2012

    [..YouTube..] the first sign is that you are watching this video right now

  • suesheification

    Reply Reply May 24, 2012

    [..YouTube..] Indecisiveness is not low-self esteem, it is lack of faith, i.e. having faith in other people or the goodness of the world.

  • priyan21

    Reply Reply May 28, 2012

    [..YouTube..] ha ha well said

  • priyan21

    Reply Reply May 28, 2012

    [..YouTube..] ha ha well said

  • AuraSoulful

    Reply Reply May 29, 2012

    [..YouTube..] All of these apply to me.

  • AuraSoulful

    Reply Reply May 29, 2012

    [..YouTube..] All of these apply to me.

  • dazeguy513

    Reply Reply June 2, 2012

    [..YouTube..] WHAT IF YOU HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY

  • SandyOC100

    Reply Reply June 3, 2012

    [..YouTube..] +1

  • rossiQA

    Reply Reply June 11, 2012

    [..YouTube..] excellent video. What is your advice if ppl try to take away your self esteem? For example… jealous if they sense success. How do you cope?

  • dvinus

    Reply Reply June 12, 2012

    [..YouTube..] …:).. good talk ..

  • Yeaahright

    Reply Reply July 29, 2012

    I don’t know if you are trying to be witty but this is not what he meant.
    You can/should listen to other people but you shouldn’t follow their ideas
    and judgements in order to gain their acceptance. You should follow their
    advice only if you agree with it.

  • Metal148

    Reply Reply August 9, 2012

    Is there any research to support these claims?

  • minimerules1231

    Reply Reply August 9, 2012

    “What if?” is a fucking great question… sometimes

  • MrIlikemusicalot

    Reply Reply August 14, 2012

    haha canadian accent whats that all abot

  • BreathOFLaminin

    Reply Reply August 16, 2012

    Low Self Esteem is Good and Healthy!
    Yeshua/ Jesus declared that one must DENY THEMSELVES, take up their cross daily, and follow Him. The only way to salvation is deny oneself of his or her own pleasures (be it lust, porn, anger, homosexuality, whatever) and pursue TRUE pleasure in Yeshua/ Jesus.
    Anyone with High Self Esteem is filled with PRIDE, believing they are good enough to go to heaven, deceiving themselves.

  • 163388416

    Reply Reply August 17, 2012

    How the hell does that help with anything? And, why are you saying not to indulge in homosexuality? Homosexuality is not a sin.

  • 163388416

    Reply Reply August 17, 2012

    And please don’t say it’s against procreation. It doesn’t matter. People are free, they can choose who they want to be. If you think that homosexuality is bad, then it doesn’t matter if you pray to god or not, you are not accepting people for who they are. That is the worst thing of all

  • 163388416

    Reply Reply August 17, 2012

    also, homosexuality is not just sexual intercourse. Homosexuality is having an attraction to the same gender. You see nothing wrong with men and women having sex, it’s how they express themselves. Same with homsexuals. Homosexuals love to be in the presence of eachother, not just to have sex

  • 163388416

    Reply Reply August 17, 2012

    having self esteem is not bad either. If you have a very high self esteem, then yes, because you are conceited, but if you have a normal self esteem, then you have confidnce in yourself to achieve everyday tasks that someone with low self esteem would not want to do

  • marauderwolf6666

    Reply Reply August 17, 2012

    Are you a psychologist?

  • Rakib Hassan

    Reply Reply August 28, 2012

    Hi, have you considered this thing called the Fat Blast Furnace? (go search google). My mother in law says it helps people lose weight easily.

  • C2h5mgi

    Reply Reply August 29, 2012

    Great video

  • Jarod Wilson

    Reply Reply September 26, 2012

    “People are free, they can choose who they want to be.” So does that mean I am free to choose to be racist, homophobic, and selfish?

  • iWarpoint

    Reply Reply October 1, 2012

    @BreathOFLaminin Low self esteem fucking sucks, don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about

  • StigDesign1

    Reply Reply October 8, 2012

    or both. i have

  • StigDesign1

    Reply Reply October 8, 2012

    Good Tips :)

  • bb33nnii

    Reply Reply October 11, 2012

    Stupid ass motherfucker.

  • Jamie George

    Reply Reply October 14, 2012

    thank you

  • NikoSaltnes96

    Reply Reply October 15, 2012

    it goes away when you have high self esteem

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    Reply Reply October 17, 2012

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  • jawid tarin

    Reply Reply October 17, 2012

    makes sense thanks !!

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    Reply Reply October 24, 2012

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    Reply Reply October 25, 2012

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  • 2WILDFLOWER

    Reply Reply October 27, 2012

    Greetings…..this was important. Thank you for the video. Peace from 2WF

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    Reply Reply October 29, 2012

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  • LilyBoEd

    Reply Reply November 3, 2012

    GEMINI’S naturally are indecisive- so then what? There are more variables that should be looked at…

  • LilyBoEd

    Reply Reply November 3, 2012

    I must add to my comment… It’s because Gemini’s see both sides of anything… They are mentally brilliant and so much is happening that making a decision may be challenging…

  • rodneys0909

    Reply Reply November 6, 2012

    OR you could just get older, AKA not a whiny “anyways” kiddy type & HTFU….Stop worrying about what people think of you , your car, job etc , etc. In a few years those women who rejected you will be single mothers (gold diggers) & it WON’T be you who got right royally reamed… REALLY it’s that simple. The reason why you’re worried a lot of the time is the media feeding you BS so as you will buy the shit they advertise to make you popular. I really feel sorry for young people these days

  • DepressionHero

    Reply Reply November 7, 2012

    Thanks for this video! My name is Omar and I suffered from low self esteem. It was actually a symptom of depression. I was depressed for a long time before I got help. I went to therapy, changed my diet, and worked hard on my negative self talk. I am now helping other people with depression thru my YT self help videos with tips that worked for me. Check out my videos on my DepressionHero channel.

  • thisismyemail806

    Reply Reply November 10, 2012

    Wow that’s bullshit I knew I had low self-esteem but I have all 7 symptoms

  • Moryom Begum

    Reply Reply November 12, 2012

    very well said mate

  • iz uan

    Reply Reply November 15, 2012

    Thanks. Simple and helpful

  • Rgina Smith

    Reply Reply November 15, 2012

    Thank you so much for your video.

  • cwdververw

    Reply Reply November 17, 2012

    Man, ur SOOO right, we are linking the self esteem to our external conditions. Before I used to get compliments but then i went through bad moments and I gained so much weight and my looks changed and I felt so bad and i had low self esteem, and now when I lost weight I feel good again and i have high self esteem

  • anna rivera

    Reply Reply November 20, 2012

    thank you this is really helpful.

  • slappingpopping

    Reply Reply November 21, 2012

    Thanks heaps, I just completed my final high school exams and am awaiting university entrance offers- unfortunately pessimistically.

  • GeminiNES

    Reply Reply November 21, 2012

    very good speech

  • aussiecowboy

    Reply Reply November 27, 2012

    I came here to find info for a friend but after watching this, this bloke gave me low self esteem.

  • mugmeoff

    Reply Reply December 1, 2012

    hey man great vid, but did you actually tell us 7 signs or only six?? what is the last 4 materialistic – to express accomplishments – other peoples opinions – & ? thanks man

  • jimnett59

    Reply Reply December 2, 2012

    6 of them ..

  • bala subrahmanyam Kovvali

    Reply Reply December 3, 2012

    Very useful video showing the signs of low self esteem, a common problem that can be helped with modern therapies. Thanks for the video-Dr.Balu.

  • ModelMiss1000

    Reply Reply December 4, 2012

    Fab video

  • Londoonrena

    Reply Reply December 5, 2012

    I just wish god made me pretty so I wouldn’t have to do with low self esteem. I know your not suppose to question him but sometimes I wonder why he made others look better then others .

  • frightfulbrute2012

    Reply Reply December 7, 2012

    Guess I do have low self esteem. :'(

  • BleachDR

    Reply Reply December 7, 2012

    his life, probably

  • Anna Dza

    Reply Reply December 8, 2012

    i have all of these signs :(

  • Adam Pena

    Reply Reply December 9, 2012

    Very informative

  • lilawesomejason4

    Reply Reply December 14, 2012

    I’m guessing I have obviously low self esteem

  • Roger Hornaday

    Reply Reply December 26, 2012

    Alcohol can help with those things.

  • MidnightRose20

    Reply Reply December 28, 2012

    D:

  • casseycatable

    Reply Reply January 5, 2013

    Aww thats the sadest thing I’ve ever heard. He wasn’t punishing you, he made you the way you are because you have more to offer the world than just a pretty face. Find your talent. Your job isn’t to judge yourself. Its to find out that one special thing you can do that no one else can.

  • casseycatable

    Reply Reply January 5, 2013

    ok so yeah I have low self esteem, doesn’t just about everyone these days. I’m sorry but give me a ten minute video on how to hit the reset button in my brain to make me love myself more and then we can talk

  • Ancelot del Pozo

    Reply Reply January 5, 2013

    i respect greatly what this guy saying, its not rocket science, you dont need to see a therapist to hear this, very true and positive.

  • ronnopoland

    Reply Reply January 6, 2013

    Brilliant and sensible. Good advice and thanks for posting.

  • tialew456

    Reply Reply January 9, 2013

    This is so helpful

  • mihai4music

    Reply Reply January 14, 2013

    Great video! Thanks a lot!

  • Mazher Majeed

    Reply Reply January 16, 2013

    Have you heard about Fat Blast Blueprint? (check it out on google) It is a quick way for you to shed pounds fast.

  • luigiperso

    Reply Reply January 17, 2013

    being negative has nothing to do with self esteem. One might be negative simply because he has no real reason to do otherwise. I am negative because I look around and I see a lot of insanity. All this crap about ‘the Universe is a good place’ is a load of crap.Pedophiles, sadism,criminal behaviour, and you don’t even have to go that far.Listen to remarks people make.An I pessimistic? Sure, call it what you want. If anything, I have low esteem of the world.I am a good guy, I don’t dislike myself.

  • luigiperso

    Reply Reply January 17, 2013

    but I agree with you about the fact that low self esteem happens because is ‘externally’ driven.

  • Grace Tallar

    Reply Reply January 20, 2013

    Tones of research. Social Psychology is listing a lot of them in details, another source are books of Nathaniel Branden and any book on Emotional Intelligence confirms what Steve is talking about.

  • borderlord

    Reply Reply January 27, 2013

    This young man speaks a lot of truth!

  • truthgal1

    Reply Reply February 6, 2013

    oh i don’t know,, common sense ?

  • “7 Signs of Low Self Esteem | Manifesting your desires.
    ..” in fact makes myself ponder a little bit further.
    I really cherished each and every individual component of it.
    Thanks ,J

  • Milan Miljkovic

    Reply Reply February 11, 2013

    Very well explained. Good job :)

  • Ryan Donovan

    Reply Reply February 15, 2013

    Yes, there’s thousands upon thousands of books written on this topic..check out Wayne Dyer, Louise Hay, Cheryl Richardson, Zig Zigler, Dale Carnegie, the guy who wrote Science of the Mind, Napolean Hill….they ALL back up what this guy is saying..those are just my favorite authors, there are many more.

  • Ryan Donovan

    Reply Reply February 15, 2013

    Great video…thank you.

  • “7 Signs of Low Self Esteem | Manifesting your desires.
    ..” was a remarkable article and also I was
    indeed quite content to read it. I appreciate it-Brandon

  • Constantine Joseph

    Reply Reply March 12, 2013

    A little too generic. There are some truths but not all are true. If you have self esteem, u want to dress well. If you’re not dressing well, it shows ur comfort level is set in being a worm like state. I can always tell who has self esteem and who hasn’t just by looking at how they dress. The people with the lowest self esteem are those who live without morals and values. The people with the highest self esteem are those who adhere to them. Just think about it

  • Constantine Joseph

    Reply Reply March 12, 2013

    Dressing wise, some people over compensate, while there are really good people with low self esteem that don’t reflect it on their outward being. Your mind determines how far u go. It is a

  • MrsMacTickle

    Reply Reply March 13, 2013

    This is very weak and mostly inaccurate. Also, sorry to say this Baby, but you really aren’t funny.

  • Marcos H

    Reply Reply March 17, 2013

    Great video, very informative!

  • backiri

    Reply Reply March 21, 2013

    Helped me a lot!

  • Tomas Tabo

    Reply Reply March 24, 2013

    im surprised. i only match number 2 (thats 100% me) …and maybe sometimes number 3, but other than that… not my case.

  • 0dontspeak

    Reply Reply April 6, 2013

    i agree with the materialism part. its so true

  • 0dontspeak

    Reply Reply April 6, 2013

    There’s a book called “59 seconds: think a little change a lot” by Richard Wiseman and he reiterates most of these same points on low self-esteem with a lot of research.

  • TheHero189

    Reply Reply April 9, 2013

    Believe that Jesus Christ is your savior for all your sins. If you truly believe in Jesus Christ to be your savior for all your sins then you will go to Heaven. If you believe in Jesus Christ then you are saved and you are in salvation and you have gained God’s righteousness. It matters not how much you have sinned in the past, in the present and especially in the future. Believe that Jesus Christ is your savior and you will go to Heaven forever and that is the whole truth. Spread the truth.

  • Mikey Beech

    Reply Reply April 9, 2013

    Not really professional reading from his computer :/

  • giraffe7983

    Reply Reply April 18, 2013

    Thank you

  • giraffe7983

    Reply Reply April 18, 2013

    Thank you

  • Mehar Kohli

    Reply Reply April 24, 2013

    Fantastic , ignore the critics .

  • Scott Horsfall

    Reply Reply April 29, 2013

    I c u : – )

  • SoulSalvation5021

    Reply Reply May 9, 2013

    I have terrible low self esteem.

  • Toni Muranaka

    Reply Reply May 11, 2013

    Spot on!

  • Islam Mounier

    Reply Reply May 16, 2013

    thank u very much .your speech is 100% true
    I have low self esteem and after your video I know some reasons that cause that to me
    thanks Steve

  • chinapoochbitch

    Reply Reply May 19, 2013

    I bet everyone has low self esteem lol

  • hanen zoghlami

    Reply Reply May 21, 2013

    I like it

  • hanen zoghlami

    Reply Reply May 21, 2013

    thank you

  • WhirlOmar

    Reply Reply May 24, 2013

    Some of the examples you give in your video are simple decisions and quite normal. Not low self esteem. And being materialistic is not low self esteem – it’s lack of intelligence. Low self esteem is when your self image is at an unhealthy level to which is it wreaks havoc in your life making you completely unhappy.

  • frostdripping

    Reply Reply June 3, 2013

    Right

  • exile0093

    Reply Reply June 4, 2013

    i dont normally comment on yt, but i gotta say man, you really opened my eyes. THANK YOU!

  • Xxsuperchick57xX

    Reply Reply June 6, 2013

    7/7 :(

  • nahoku kuwamura

    Reply Reply June 6, 2013

    7/7 D:

  • Youlikethatchannel

    Reply Reply June 13, 2013

    Now this has been a bit of an eye opener.

    I’ve been chasing stuff for my whole life. I might only be 22, but I’ve conquered a lot of things already.

    I have my own company, taught myself things autodeductively, completed an Ironman, dated supermodels.

    And you know what? I feel like shit 9/10 days.

  • Victor Motta

    Reply Reply June 13, 2013

    isnt this anxiety or s.a.d

  • bcbgpro9999

    Reply Reply June 20, 2013

    bet!

  • Godfrey Silas

    Reply Reply June 21, 2013

    The irony is that the opinion is actually on target. I study this stuff as a life student of self-psychology. I have determined that core self-appraisal and esteeming is the highest form of self-love, which is the engine that drives what is known as self-esteem. It is NOT Other Esteem.

    It is instructive to note that most humans never attain self-actualizing and transcendence. In fact, most humans never resolve self-esteem because of the circularity of BELONGING needs.
    -Godfrey Silas

  • M. Clark

    Reply Reply June 24, 2013

    Hey I really like your videos you are very uplifting and your tone of voice is so positive! You give direct and concrete advice. Good job Steve :)

  • Raphael Motta

    Reply Reply June 26, 2013

    Where should I seek help for low self-steam?

  • pintobean50

    Reply Reply June 27, 2013

    I show almost all of these

  • shyisabear

    Reply Reply June 28, 2013

    I have very low self esteem :( and im 17 years old :(

  • Christina Paul

    Reply Reply June 30, 2013

    Please everyone check out my first video on positive thinking!! It would mean alot, I’m 15 with a dream!!

  • EastCoastRips

    Reply Reply July 3, 2013

    Im herbialistic, always want that herb..lol

  • Gianpiero Moro

    Reply Reply July 4, 2013

    very nice explanation!

    thanks

  • abbas123ism

    Reply Reply July 5, 2013

    Shyisabear you should never have a low self esteem it shows you are a coward ignore people who are stupid to you and God made you Accept Yourself For who you are don’t give up on yourself don’t be bitter on yourself you are something special :)

  • MyMelanie1990

    Reply Reply July 7, 2013

    Fantastic video, The internal and external point at the end was great!

  • poboii

    Reply Reply July 14, 2013

    I have low self-esteem :/

  • Alberto Cevallos

    Reply Reply July 14, 2013

    thanks steve

  • crazysamzman

    Reply Reply July 17, 2013

    Thank you for the helpful information Steve! I appreciate the time you took to make this video:-)

  • ashley ferrell

    Reply Reply July 18, 2013

    well.. i do everything he talked about…

  • Dan Troy

    Reply Reply July 19, 2013

    Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your hand-break on.

  • Lynnielynn

    Reply Reply July 30, 2013

    A friend has told me I have low self esteem among other things a few times, going by these 7 signs he’s right. o.O

  • xSIlentzNation

    Reply Reply July 31, 2013

    Mary J is another one too

  • jim xyooj

    Reply Reply August 2, 2013

    I knew I had low self esteem then I have all these 7 problems o.0 bad..

  • whitewiddoww

    Reply Reply August 12, 2013

    michael cera’s autistic cousin brad made a video on self esteem

  • maillaarni

    Reply Reply September 10, 2013

    I am not sure about this. I think many of these are too simplistic. People are more complicated than that. I think the key is balance. Being indecisive might seem bad on the outside but people who make decisions without thinking about something are dangerous.

  • Sarah F

    Reply Reply September 22, 2013

    Wow, I now feel incredibly shitty about myself

  • Mr. Dingus

    Reply Reply October 6, 2013

    7 Potatos of Low Self Potato.

  • Yesh uwah

    Reply Reply October 7, 2013

    Well I don’t have low Self Esteem… I thought I did but after watching this I’m Normal. After you face your fears; If you’re like me and they’re Public speaking and talking to a girl you really like I mean not just like but In-love with then you’ll be okay. Also just be yourself. At the end of the day you came in this world alone and you will leave it alone. God also helps. He my all in all. If you know not Jehovah and his Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit then you need to.

  • Yesh uwah

    Reply Reply October 7, 2013

    Well I don’t have low Self Esteem. I thought I did but after watching this I’m Normal. After you face your fears; If you’re like me and they’re Public speaking and talking to a girl you really like I mean not just like but In-love with then you’ll be okay. Also just be yourself. At the end of the day you came in this world alone and you will leave it alone. God also helps. He my all in all. If you know not Jehovah and his Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit then you need to.

  • Yesh uwah

    Reply Reply October 7, 2013

    Well I don’t have low Self Esteem. I thought I did but after watching this I’m Normal. After you face your fears; If you’re like me and they’re Public speaking and talking to a girl you really like I mean not just like but in love with then you’ll be okay. Also just be yourself. At the end of the day you came in this world alone and you will leave it alone. God also helps. He my all in all. If you know not Jehovah and his Son Jesus and the Holy Spirit then you need to.

  • Vincent Hilliard

    Reply Reply October 11, 2013

    This was very good. I will remember these things. I have also found it best just to be yourself you can live a happier life that way. You don’t always have to follow the crowd and do what everyone else is doing. You can find a inner peace with yourself that is just unbelievable.

  • HannasRandoms

    Reply Reply October 13, 2013

    I didn’t think I had low self-esteem but apparently I have

  • 1420mayra

    Reply Reply October 14, 2013

    6/7 wow …. thats bad

  • Triveni satyanarayana

    Reply Reply October 16, 2013

    Great Video!

    Who doesn’t have problems in life? I think the key is to manage it.
    I use an iPhone app called “my problems” by hanumappa which in a great way helps me list and resolve my problems.

    So, the key is to take action!, not sit on problems

  • Gers bumanlag

    Reply Reply October 19, 2013

    Any happy traders who’s happily trading with GDMFX? can you share some advice or tips pls.I heard this online broker has a nice trading platform.

  • Graham Smith

    Reply Reply October 23, 2013

    Good video man. Thank you.

  • kitty purry

    Reply Reply October 23, 2013

    thank you so much <3

  • Staci C

    Reply Reply October 23, 2013

    Woow, I knew I had low self-esteem but I didn’t think about a lot of these examples. Spot on. Crazy!!

  • laced24

    Reply Reply October 24, 2013

    Thank you!

  • denise pamela

    Reply Reply October 28, 2013

    Awesome

  • Maryna Bok

    Reply Reply October 29, 2013

    I’ve got them all

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    Reply Reply November 2, 2013

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  • Nancy Smo

    Reply Reply November 5, 2013

    Helpful information!

  • shamima mix

    Reply Reply November 5, 2013

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  • betsy rea

    Reply Reply November 8, 2013

    I have all the symptoms… is it bad tho ??

  • Gia Nelisse

    Reply Reply November 21, 2013

    6 out of 7 I know it :( but is so hard to just grow confident when all you
    have around is prosperous and beautiful, smart and etc. People

  • Steve Böttger

    Reply Reply November 22, 2013

    Very powerful talk. Thanks for the best practises!

  • Wyatt Staggers

    Reply Reply December 4, 2013

    This video is sooo true
    I suffer with Low Self Esteem and I learned a lot that made sense
    now I get it and understand my low self esteem

  • Lucius71995

    Reply Reply December 6, 2013

    damn, got them all, now i just feel more miserable

  • permacut

    Reply Reply December 7, 2013

    Keep up the videos man you are doing a great job!

  • OneTallman

    Reply Reply December 10, 2013

    15 clicked dislike cause they have low self esteem . great video man

  • shirusubemonaku

    Reply Reply December 28, 2013

    I LIKE how u pronounce “about” lol

  • freedomfyter

    Reply Reply January 10, 2014

    Nice vid bro!

  • pinky flower

    Reply Reply January 17, 2014

    Steve Martille, I hope my question won’t bother :
    Is “you making these videos” , means people liking what you said and being
    effected but what you said, is totally NOT linked to your self esteem? so
    what it the reason for making those videos? is it because you had an
    experiment of low-self esteem and now you got out of it so you wanna share?
    It is beautiful to dream about being confident in myself and the outside
    factors having totally NO effect on me no more ..
    hope you’ll answer.

  • Ashwin Pillay

    Reply Reply February 15, 2014

    Thanks Steve! great video.. You achieve mastery of your life when your
    inner voice is louder than the external voices! This is gold.

  • Gott der Allmächtige

    Reply Reply February 22, 2014

    excellent!!!

  • Steven Mak

    Reply Reply March 6, 2014

    Thank you

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